Retirement is About Experiences, Not Purchases

September 25, 2025

Here’s what we discuss in this episode:

🧠 The Neuroscience of Happiness

💡 Mindset Shift: From Stuff to Substance

🎯 Retirement Planning for Long-Term Joy

👨‍👩‍👧 The Value of Family-Focused Experiences

What if your retirement wish list focused on experiences that bring lasting joy, rather than material possessions? In this episode, Rob explains why retirement should be about creating meaningful memories, not just accumulating things. Listen to discover the science and emotional benefits behind how experiences enrich our lives, foster intergenerational connection and provide the best investment you can make in retirement.


Many people view retirement as the time to finally indulge in possessions, but Rob challenges that mindset. Instead, he encourages listeners to prioritize experiences, through activities like family vacations and legacy projects. By focusing on moments that build lasting memories, you not only enrich your own life but also create connections with loved ones across generations, leading to a retirement filled with joy, purpose, and lasting fulfillment.


0:00 – Intro

1:08 – Affordability vs. Desired Feelings

2:18 – The Emotional Return on Investments Over Purchases

3:53 – Rethink Your Retirement Wishlist

5:39 – The Power of Family Experiences and Legacy Projects

8:22 – The Dopamine Hit from Buying “Stuff”

11:40 – Creating Legacy with Intergeneration Connection 

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